
Raps field in the country side, Denmark
I love Denmark. I am thrilled to be in this country and I can’t wait to know more and learn more every day. I have been here since November 2008. People tell me to wait, that the shoe will drop eventually, and that I will be just as miserable as most of the foreigners here before too long. I am happy to say that I have new wonderful experiences to report on the daily basis and I have finally given up expecting that other shoe to drop.
I came here from one of the most beautiful places in the world, Northern California. I loved it there, but there was always something missing. I always felt like I couldn’t ever have all that I wanted, and I am not talking about material possessions. We were, as most Americans, living way beyond our means. We had no time to be together as a family, working round the clock to support our enormous outgoings. We were always stressed out and very tense.
Why Denmark? Well, my husband just happens to be from this wonderful country. We moved here for our children to have a better, simpler and safer childhood with their family around. My family unfortunately has shrunk down to just my mom, my dad and my brother and soon my dad will be moving to Thailand. So, needless to say, we wanted our children to grow up around their cousins, aunts and uncles, grandparents and extended family.
We came here to get out of the rat race and to have some security in case things should take a downturn. We anticipated it being difficult to get a job but we had no idea it would take 6 months of using up all of our savings and finally asking for help. Now, fortunately, things are changing and we are slowly getting back up onto our feet. The economy tanked right after we made our decision to move, so it has been a rough road to say the least.
This country, no matter what people want to say, is great, and no one can tell me otherwise. It came through for us when we needed it the most. Since there is no childcare available in my area, they are paying me to take care of my children so I do not put them in an institution. I have 3 children ages 1, 3 and 5. I am not ready to give them up anyway, so now I have another year to figure out what I am going to do and make some contacts meanwhile for when I am ready to get back into singing. They are also paying for my husband to get another degree so he can have the latest industry knowledge in his field. He has finally found a good job to earn enough money to get us through this transition so we can start contributing a bit. There is also free medical care for all of us and free dental care for my kids up until they are 18. The things I just mentioned are a huge weight off of our shoulders. In the US we were self employed and paid so much towards doctor’s bills, medical insurance and dental bills. Here, all we have to worry about is putting food on the table and paying rent. This means that we can spend that family time together that we were aching for back in the states.
There are good and bad things about any country that you may want to live in, but I have always had a love affair with Europe and always hoped to make it my home someday. I love learning another language, the changing seasons, the raps fields in the Spring, the birds singing, the emphasis on family, the people here, the simple life and just being able to appreciate all of my blessings. I didn’t have that luxury back in California.
I just wanted to share my positive story to show another side of the coin. It is not easy to move to another country and everyone is going to have their own experience, but I love it here and am very happy with my new life in Denmark. Living day to day and appreciating all that I have, finally makes it easy for me to breathe again, and for that I am very grateful!